Love, Family, and the Essence of Inclusion: A Wedding Story

Love, Family, and the Essence of Inclusion: A Wedding Story

MY BROTHER WITH DOWN SYNDROME OFFERED TO WALK ME DOWN THE AISLE AFTER OUR DAD DI:ED.

MY MIL WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO OBJECTED—SO I TAUGHT HER A LESSON WITHOUT MAKING A SCENE.

It took my brother three tries to get the question out. “Can I do Dad’s job?

At the wedding. Walking you. Down the middle part.” Our dad had been gone eleven months by then.

Dominic is thirty-one. He has Down syndrome. He and Dad spent every Saturday together in that garage, same coffee mug, same jokes nobody else ever laughed at.

I put my hand over my mouth. He just waited, patient the way he always is.

“Yes,” I finally said. From that week on, he practiced nonstop — walking the hallway with his arm held out, counting every step, calling the church himself to ask exactly what to do once we reached the front.

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